I used to have a friend...

[junkerin]

Last week I found an old game "Sherlock Holmes" that belonged to a friend of my that moved away. And I thought "Hm, I put it in a parcel and maybe she will be happy to have it back and maybe we´ll have a little bit more contact in the future."

So I sent it to hear with a nice card, explaining everything and asking if we could meet again sometime (her parents still live here so she is sometimes around). Today I got her letter and well she said thank you for the game but also told me the past is in the past not to bother her anymore with christmas cards and unwanted news about my life.

That really hurts somehow. We were close some time ago, we never had a fight and now she just told me go away.

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[herminekurotowa.livejournal.com]

I had a best friend during university and after; she was in the birthing room when Em was born. Two years later (twelve and a half years ago) she called me saying she didn't want to have contact with me because we "grew apart". Occasionnally, I see her on the street, we say Hi, and it still hurts a little bit.

You just need to let these people go, even though it's hard.