I used to have a friend...

[junkerin]

Last week I found an old game "Sherlock Holmes" that belonged to a friend of my that moved away. And I thought "Hm, I put it in a parcel and maybe she will be happy to have it back and maybe we´ll have a little bit more contact in the future."

So I sent it to hear with a nice card, explaining everything and asking if we could meet again sometime (her parents still live here so she is sometimes around). Today I got her letter and well she said thank you for the game but also told me the past is in the past not to bother her anymore with christmas cards and unwanted news about my life.

That really hurts somehow. We were close some time ago, we never had a fight and now she just told me go away.

Comments

Aw Geeeze I'm sorry :(

[ereynolds74.livejournal.com]

Hey you just saw this, I am so sorry :( this sucks, I wish I had the words to express how much this sucks and the wisdom to give you comforted or some insight on how to take this.

You know what FUCK IT- their loss- by the sound of it you've been nothing but a good caring friend, if they can't see that then they don't deserve you in their life. Don't let this ruin your day or don't even bother to give this another minuet of your thought.

You have tons of friends that care and love you- and tomorrow is your B-day so go out and celebrate and go crazy :) I send you lots of Birthday wishes - each wish for you to laugh, love and believe in just a bit of magic can come true ;)

(((HUGS)))
Liz

[szarabasjka.livejournal.com]

Sometimes you just grow up to be an asshole.
You're better off without her.

[junkerin.livejournal.com]

Thank you I allready feel better

[sylsdarkplace]

You know, one of my former roommates did that. She was one of my bridesmaids. We were that close. Then she just disappeared from my life. Not interested.

The thing is I know that she's done to other people. I knew that before it happened. She told me so once. So, I know it's nothing personal, but it still makes me sad.

The same is probably true of her. She's just one of those people who doesn't hold on when they feel they've drifted away. Still, she didn't need to be an asshole about it. Sorry you're hurt, hon.

[junkerin.livejournal.com]

Yes I think this is it. She doesn’t hold on.

[herminekurotowa.livejournal.com]

I had a best friend during university and after; she was in the birthing room when Em was born. Two years later (twelve and a half years ago) she called me saying she didn't want to have contact with me because we "grew apart". Occasionnally, I see her on the street, we say Hi, and it still hurts a little bit.

You just need to let these people go, even though it's hard.